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The Love Matrix
You are a symphony of love. An amazing amalgamation of music and instruments, all working together to transmit love and vitality magically—through the air— to and between those receiving your love song. The first step in this magical journey, is to learn what it means to actually receive love. We love to feel loved. It simultaneously softens us, excites us, relaxes us and vitalizes us.
Science as a Spiritual Practice
I am the a seed of consciousness that sprouts and blossoms as a universal pool of life giving essence which holds all things. Life is perfect in its universal boundlessness, which is grace itself—is a gift of One enduring sacred pulse that permeates all insides and outsides, with ever present love. Perfection has formed us into the imperfect—our mistakes, our virtues our agony, our doubts all nested within and healed through omnipresent, timeless splendor. (unknown)
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Maturing Leadership: How Adult Development Impacts Leadership
The demands on leaders are increasing. Yet we have lacked widely understood, empirically grounded and rigorous ways to support the development of them to meet these demands.
Maturing Leadership: How Adult Development Impacts Leadership explores this topic with vigor, with some of the most cutting-edge minds and ideas on leadership available today. Terri O’Fallon contributed to one of the chapters in this book, and we have the chapter in its entirety here for you to download. You can buy the book here.
The STAGES Matrix Roadmap

- The big picture view that developmental psychology can give you about life
- How to understand leadership, parenting, and relationship through an entirely different lens
- What this understanding makes possible
- How this model is similar to, and different from, other developmental models
- The “big three” questions that orient all of us in life
This accessible and readable guide also contains helpful diagrams and illustrations. You will also be put onto the STAGES news and information mailing list.
Academic Papers
The Aware Leader: Supporting Post-Autonomous Leadership Development
Abigail Lynam, Geoff Fitch, & Terri O’Fallon Lynam , A., Fitch, G.,...
The Love Matrix
You are a symphony of love. An amazing amalgamation of music and instruments, all working together to transmit love and vitality magically—through the air— to and between those receiving your love song. The first step in this magical journey, is to learn what it means to actually receive love. We love to feel loved. It simultaneously softens us, excites us, relaxes us and vitalizes us.
Science as a Spiritual Practice
I am the a seed of consciousness that sprouts and blossoms as a universal pool of life giving essence which holds all things. Life is perfect in its universal boundlessness, which is grace itself—is a gift of One enduring sacred pulse that permeates all insides and outsides, with ever present love. Perfection has formed us into the imperfect—our mistakes, our virtues our agony, our doubts all nested within and healed through omnipresent, timeless splendor. (unknown)
The Senses: Demystifying Awakening
Integral Theory Conference July 2013, San Francisco, USA Abstract: Our...
STAGES: Growing up is Waking up—Interpenetrating Quadrants, States and Structures
Introduction Many significant movements have graced humanity through its...
The Evolution Of The Human Soul: Developmental Practices in Spiritual Guidance
May 3, 2010 Revised, March, 2015 Chapter One: Roots and Branches...
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The STAGES Matrix: Understanding Development
As we grow into adults, we develop the capacity to take on more complex perspectives. This development can continue throughout adulthood and be expressed as emerging abilities to take larger perspectives, see novel solutions, and find unifying themes in life, work, and love.
Terri O’Fallon talks about how we can:
- Learn the differences between major stages of development.
- Determine our own stage of perspective development—and what it means.
- Discover how our perspective can be developed over time.
- Understand how our stage of perspective development can positively influence our work, our relationships, and our self-understanding.
90 minutes
Grief & Loss: Transforming Sorrow into Wisdom
Kim Barta dives into grief and loss from a developmental and practical perspective. Grief and loss have major impacts on us. Our instincts often direct us to try and move away from the pain as the waves of grief crash over us, one after another. And yet, like waves on a real beach, we can move out of the turmoil by going into the waves and towards the calm waters beyond.
In this talk, Kim will discuss how:
- Grief is not a disorder but a healthy process that can help clarify values and uncover your deeper self
- We can move into our grief without getting overwhelmed by it
- Attending to our grief can allow us to uncover the wisdom within it
- Our sorrow and loss can open the doors of appreciation and compassion
90 minutes
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